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How to Choose
7 Questions
No One Tells You to Ask
Choosing a fertility doctor is a deeply personal decision — one that can shape your entire journey to parenthood. Yet, many women walk into their first consultation without knowing what to ask, simply trusting that their doctor will guide them.
The truth? Not all fertility clinics are created equal
Some rush you into treatments you’re not ready for. Others barely communicate, leaving you feeling lost and unheard. And then there’s the emotional toll—wondering if you’re just another patient on their list instead of someone with real hopes, fears, and dreams.
Before you commit, here are seven crucial questions to help you find a doctor who truly listens, cares, and gives you the best chance of success.
How Does the Clinic Communicate with Payients?
A lot of women assume their doctor will be there for every step — ultrasounds, procedures, and follow-ups. But at some clinics, you might only see your doctor for big milestones, while nurses or technicians handle everything else
Before you commit, ask:
- Will my doctor personally do my ultrasounds and procedures?
- Will I see different doctors at each visit?
- Who will explain my treatment plan and progress?
💡 Why this matters:
If you expect personalized care but end up seeing someone new at every visit, it can feel like starting over every time.
1. How Does the Clinic Communicate with Patients?
2. Who Will Actually Be Treating Me?
A lot of women assume their doctor will be there for every step — ultrasounds, procedures, and follow-ups. But at some clinics, you might only see your doctor for big milestones, while nurses or technicians handle everything else
Before you commit, ask:
- Will my doctor personally do my ultrasounds and procedures?
- Will I see different doctors at each visit?
- Who will explain my treatment plan and progress?
💡 Why this matters:
If you expect personalized care but end up seeing someone new at every visit, it can feel like starting over every time.
3. What Happens on Weekends? Are There Extra Charges?
Your body doesn’t follow a Monday-to-Friday schedule, but some clinics do.
That means if you need an urgent scan or procedure on a Saturday, you might be charged extra—or worse, have to wait until Monday, which could throw off your entire cycle.
What to ask:
- Are weekend appointments available?
- Will I see my own doctor, or just whoever is on call?
- Are there extra fees for weekend visits?
💡 Why this matters:
Fertility treatments are time-sensitive. If your clinic isn’t flexible, you could be paying more—or lowering your chances—just because of scheduling.
4. Where Is the Lab? Will I Have to Go Somewhere Else?
Most people don’t think to ask about the IVF lab—but they should.
Some clinics have their own labs on-site, making things seamless. Others use third-party labs across town, meaning you’ll have to travel for critical steps like egg retrievals and embryo transfers.
Before you commit, ask:
- Is the lab inside the clinic, or will I need to go somewhere else?
- Will there be additional facility fees?
- How far is the lab from the clinic?
💡 Why this matters:
Every extra step adds stress, time, and often extra costs—so you want a clinic that makes things as easy as possible.
5. How Will I Receive My Lab Results?
Nothing is more frustrating than waiting for test results that never come.
Some clinics make you schedule an appointment just to get answers. Others drop results in an online portal with no explanation—leaving you to Google what they mean.
Before choosing a doctor, ask:
- Will my results be explained in detail?
- Will I have a follow-up consultation, or just an email?
- Will someone call me with updates, or do I have to chase them?
💡 Why this matters:
Your fertility journey is too important for vague answers. You deserve a doctor who keeps you informed every step of the way.
6. What Are the Clinic’s Success Rates—Really?
It’s easy to get swept up by big numbers on a clinic’s website. But success rates can be misleading, especially if they’re outdated or don’t apply to your age group or diagnosis.
Here’s what to ask:
- What are the success rates for patients my age?
- What are the success rates for my specific condition?
- Are these numbers based on recent data?
💡 Why this matters:
Success rates are only useful if they apply to you. Make sure the numbers reflect your unique situation.
7. Will My Doctor Truly Listen to Me?
At the end of the day, this might be the most important question of all.
Some doctors rush through consultations, pushing you toward treatments you don’t understand. Others truly listen, explaining options and working with you to create the best plan.
Ask yourself:
- Do I feel comfortable asking questions?
- Does my doctor explain things clearly?
- Am I being pressured into IVF, or are other options being considered?
💡 Why this matters:
Fertility treatment is deeply emotional. You deserve a doctor who treats you like a person, not just another case file.
Your Future Deserves the Right Doctor
Fertility treatment isn’t just about medicine—it’s about trust, communication, and feeling cared for.
Too many women stay with the wrong clinic for too long, simply because they feel stuck. But the truth is, switching to the right doctor can change everything.
At Ferny Fertility Clinic, we believe that every woman deserves a clear plan, honest answers, and compassionate care from a doctor who truly listens.
Meet Dr. Andrew Harper – A Leading Expert in Fertility Care
If you’re looking for a doctor who combines cutting-edge fertility science with a deeply personal approach, Dr. Andrew Harper is the specialist you want by your side.
A native of Huntsville, Alabama, Dr. Harper has dedicated his career to helping couples overcome infertility. In 2003, he founded Huntsville Reproductive Medicine, the first full-time reproductive endocrinology practice in North Alabama. Today, he has brought his expertise to New York, where he remains committed to providing the highest quality fertility care with compassion, communication, and consistency.
💡 Why Patients Trust Dr. Harper:
- World-Class Expertise – Trained at Baylor College of Medicine and completed a prestigious fellowship at the University of Washington.
- Proven Track Record – Recognized for groundbreaking research in reproductive endocrinology, with publications in leading medical journals.
- Personalized, Patient-First Care – Known for taking the time to truly listen, ensuring every treatment plan is tailored to each patient’s needs.
With board certifications in Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive Endocrinology, Dr. Harper specializes in:
You Deserve a Doctor Who Listens
Whether you’re just starting your fertility journey or have experienced unsuccessful treatments in the past, you don’t have to go through it alone.
At Ferny, we believe in:
Clear, honest communication – No more feeling lost or unheard.
Personalized treatment plans – Because fertility care should never be one-size-fits-all.
Support beyond medicine – Your emotional well-being is just as important as your physical health.
Your future starts here.
Let’s talk about your options—no pressure, no obligations, just answers.
➡ Schedule a free consultation today and take the first step toward your future family.
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